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https://bit.ly/3enhruE https://bit.ly/3yyYcFj https://bit.ly/3CKOMZU https://bit.ly/3CKONwW https://bit.ly/3yyeRJ0 https://bit.ly/3TbmcGn https://bit.ly/3fRtjW1 https://bit.ly/3CLH9T2 1. Tell him it is none of his business which is a de facto admission of a high number or past “slutty” behavior. 2. Tell the truth. 3. Lie. Frankly, many guys are going to want to know in the context of a potential LTR/marriage. Really, I see nothing sacred about keeping one’s sexual history some sort of secret. For a LTR/marriage, I would want to know the person’s financial history and job history as well (generally speaking slutty spendthrifts with poor credit and a spotty job record probably aren’t the best future wives). If I am going to buy a used car, I want to know everything about it prior to purchase. If I am just going for a test drive, I couldn’t care less. Generally speaking, I think #2 is the best option, and if it becomes a dealbreaker for the guy…well….then it wasn’t meant to be. But again, this gets back to the one of the messages I think of this post which is if you want marriage and kids with a quality guy who has options you’d better think very carefully about what sexual path you follow in your 20s. #3 could work tactically, but carries the large risk of the truth eventually getting revealed. Depending on the situation and context, this could be enough for the guy to break it off, and then you’ve wasted alot of time. I’ve been with my GF now for 4.5 years. We just moved in together last week, and I will most likely marry her at some point (she is wonderful). Very early in our relationship she revealed she had a one night stand (although her overall number is low). This rattled me because it made me question the judgement/assessment I had made of her character. However, she spent her ENTIRE 20s as extremely obese with ZERO male attention, and then lost all the weight in her early 30s (she is a solid 8 now). As she lost the weight, she started to get male attention she never got and made some mistakes. Ultimately, I got past it and it became a non-factor. As a side point, former fatties who lose the weight and turn hot are prime targets for player types. They don’t have bitch shields, and unlike hotties from the teen years aren’t tired of male attention to their beauty. They are particularly responsive to the neg but I digress. What’s my point? I think telling the truth is better, and maybe some explanation will make the guy understand the behavior. Again, this only matters if you actually think this is a guy you could be with very long-term and desire a LTR/marriage with.
