https://bit.ly/3tE3mg6 https://bit.ly/3ISNkFf https://bit.ly/3KuBNg6 https://bit.ly/35ZpxVU https://bit.ly/3MrqYwS https://bit.ly/3tIy0EO https://bit.ly/34pvFGl https://bit.ly/3MyaHGn https://bit.ly/3Cmhizf https://bit.ly/3HSRgoc https://bit.ly/3hQmj9S I find these discussions very interesting, especially when it helps me discover or figure out things about myself that I never paid attention to before. And even when it does occasionally wander away from the endlessly fascinating topic of muscles and manliness... by DeeMarie? on 2006 Sep 30 - 18:51 | reply to this comment Brains vs. brawn I like them both, but considering almost any man with enough time, effort and determination can have six pack abs, I'm much more appreciative and turned on by a moderately fit man with a good head on his shoulders and a warm heart. They're not a dime a dozen as far as I can see. I'm also not as interested in being physically forced to comply with my husband's wishes, although I love knowing that he'll take me in hand with a good spanking when I'm not in compliance. For me it's a matter of exercising free will but living with the consequence of one's actions. I work out regularly and my husband a good bit less than me, but he can hold both of my hands down with one of his even while I'm kicking about a good bit. In other words, it doesn't take much for a man to overpower me, or most women I'd venture to bet, considering how many cases of rape and assault there seem to be in the news these days. Anyway, for me might will never make right in a relationship. And since I'm in a 10+ year marriage, what is much more important to me is that he has the intellect, wisdom and common sense to lead me in the right direction. I find it deliciously erotic to know that he'll give me a good walloping for not following it. To each his own, but this is the kind of dominance that is much more enticing and surely longer lasting. Lucy by Lucy Ellis on 2006 Sep 30 - 20:57 | reply to this comment Strength of mind and body |