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Charlotte....It is an unfortunate part of too many relationships that unkind things are said in the heat of an argument that can not be taken back. Whoever said "sticks and stone can break your bones, but words can never hurt you" has it all wrong.

It is often discussed on the this site that women should be careful about who they offer their submission to because of the very real concern for physical abuse. I agree. But I also think men should be advised to be discerning as well when choosing a mate. We never read much about how woman, who often have superior verbal skills, has the potential to do real harm to her man

So I agree, both men and women must be kind to each other. This is why I place great value on repsectful communication in our relationship. Careless words can lead to a downward spiral that can take hours or even days to fix. And if it becomes a regular part of how a couple interacts it spells doom for that relationship.

by Stephen on 2005 Feb 2 - 13:21 | reply to this comment The verbal viciousness woman Stephen, I do so agree with you about the verbal viciousness women can demonstrate toward their men. It is an unfortunate tendency that has been encouraged so much in our media, particularly sitcoms (at least in America). There is so much male bashing, and it is tolerated and even celebrated. There are some popular t-shirts in the stores these days that say "Boys are stupid. Throw rocks at them." Or "Boys suck and they kind of stink." Funny on the surface, perhaps, but I wonder how women would feel about boys wearing t-shirts that said "girls are stupid!" Charlotte