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I would not be repulsed by him asking to experiment with being on the spanking end. We have tried to switch and I am hopeless at it. I giggle and laugh. I feel totally ridiculous! We have found out that neither of us is turned on at all by switching for spanking. I do not feel dominant spanking him and he does not feel in the least bit submissive. My husband wanting to try switching did not make me lose any respect for him and I was not in the least bit less attracted to him. It was sexually experimenting and in the end we learned more about each other. We had fun and we passed it off as not for us, at least not now. We laughed and it was connecting because it was such an open way of being together. I am learning to never say never in this lifestyle. I am finding that we are trying things we never thought we would, and happily we are turning out ok. Our relationship is resilient and it is wonderful.

Since we changed our marriage, making my husband the head of the household, our communication is so much better. Because of this we feel more freedom to try new things. It is not threatening to either of us and we are finding even when the experiment does not work we learn more about ourselves and our relationship. For me it is not so simple to say, he has to be dominant all the time, it is just not a reality for us. It is safe for both of us to express an interest or curiosity in something. We may not try it or we may, but in the end we are learning that we can indeed grow from the situation.

Take care everyone, Tevemer

What I want is a man whose strength and dominance fill me with passion, desire, and awe; what I want is for my femininity to be powerfully conquered by his masculinity; what I want is the sublime erotic and spiritual bliss that comes only out of this union of extreme opposites, wherein I can worship him as a priestess devoted to her god. And that is all that I have ever wanted out of marriage.

Who here, of the women, will say that it should not be a *man's* aspiration be thus to his woman?

Sarah, I am so proud of you for writing such an outstanding description of Taken In Hand.

You site is so popular that I often read (elsewhere) of relationships where one of the partners is 'Taken In Hand'. The quote alone has taken off.