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131 Abbot October 23, 2011 at 10:52 am

after I’ve slept with her too soon and have lost respect for her. .. I’m also uninterested after her behaviour. ..if a girl is making you wait longer than three dates, it’s likely you are being played….This is why I”m not married.

You are not to blame for the low and declining marriage rate and the vicious-cycle social destruction it has caused

132 Abbot October 23, 2011 at 10:57 am

there are loads of girls who like, a slower approach

and deserve the wait ONLY if said girls have ALWAYS proceeded slowly

133 Susan Walsh October 23, 2011 at 10:58 am

@Sock! Great comment, thanks.

You can’t get the girl/relationship if you don’t get her attention and spark her attraction triggers… and I don’t just mean I want her to say ‘I like him’ but I want to be the rule breaker for her..

There it is again, that male desire to be the one she’ll throw herself at – easy to get for him alone. understandable, but then how do you square it with this:

Women who offer sex too readily are easy

Can you trust a woman to be easy for you alone?

134 Susan Walsh October 23, 2011 at 11:01 am

I don’t think the typical girl is as spoiled and entitled as the one described here… but I do think the typical girl loses respect for a guy who doesn’t try to sleep with her before showing signs of commitment.

Yes, my gut is telling me the same thing, and that’s actually a revelation for me.

135 deti October 23, 2011 at 11:03 am

Never Nice:

“This is because women consider men beneath their notice (romantically) until they are attracted to him. So once the women notice “this is an attractive man” then they want to see the courting behaviors. A man deemed unattractive, performing courting behaviors, just becomes an annoyance.”

Yes.